"Hitting your kids is parenting for amateurs or dummies."
That's very absolute a statement.
"matter of calmly reminding them of their incentives, both negative and positive."
As you said YMMV. Children are different from not only different families but within the same family. Punishment that works with one is pointless with another.
That's very absolute a statement.
"matter of calmly reminding them of their incentives, both negative and positive."
As you said YMMV. Children are different from not only different families but within the same family. Punishment that works with one is pointless with another.